Becoming Her Through Healing

By Crystal Jordan

Becoming Her Magazine

Published: 06/`11/2025

Healing doesn’t always happen in silence — it happens in surrender.

Sometimes healing looks like tears that no one sees, prayers you can’t put into words, or rebuilding from something that should’ve never been broken in the first place.

People often ask me, “Crystal, are you okay?”And most days, I don’t say much. But today, I’ll answer honestly —No, I’m not okay.

Imagine having something you dreamed of since you were a preteen — something you nurtured, built, and protected — only to invite someone into that vision and watch them take it.

It changes you. It humbles you. It forces you to see people’s true character.Because business isn’t just business — it’s spiritual. It reveals integrity, or the lack of it. It shows you who’s operating from faith and who’s operating from ego.

What happened to me wasn’t right.But it was a lesson — one that will forever shape how I move, how I protect what God gives me, and how I do business from this point forward.

I’ve learned that healing isn’t about pretending it didn’t happen.It’s about telling the truth, without bitterness, and letting that truth free you.

Healing out loud means I can say:Yes, I was betrayed.Yes, I was hurt.But I am still here building, believing, and becoming.

Because no matter how the story was twisted, I know the truth: vision can’t be stolen, and purpose can’t be replaced.

So, to every woman who’s ever been betrayed, overlooked, or taken advantage of this is your reminder:You don’t have to hide your healing.You can speak it, walk through it, and rise from it.

Becoming her isn’t about staying silent.It’s about surrendering to the process and trusting that God will use even this — the loss, the lesson, the pain — to make you whole again.

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