Are You Becoming Her?

By Crystal Jordan

Becoming Her Magazine

Published: 05/20/2025

It’s a question every woman has to ask herself at some point

Are you becoming her?

Not the version people expect. Not the one you post online. But the woman staring back at you in the mirror.

Are you proud of her? Or have you become someone you no longer recognize someone who traded integrity for image, peace for performance, or purpose for validation?

Becoming “her” isn’t about perfection, influence, or having it all together. It’s about alignment. It’s about checking your heart when no one’s watching and asking: Am I walking in truth, or am I just talking about it?

Because sometimes we can lose ourselves in the noise chasing applause, likes, and opportunities that look good but don’t feel good. We convince ourselves that success means we’re healed, when really, we’ve just learned how to hide our wounds better.

But God will always bring us back to the mirror.Back to the reflection we’ve been avoiding.Back to the woman we were before the world told us who to be.

Are you hiding? Are you really walking in your truth?

Are you proud of who you are beocoming?

Becoming her means doing the hard work the healing work. It means admitting when we’ve been wrong, when we’ve hurt others, and when we’ve lost sight of who we truly are. It means walking away from gossip, from manipulation, from the need to prove.

If you can’t recognize the woman you’re becoming, it’s time to pause.To repent.To rebuild.To remember.

Because true becoming starts with honesty. And the woman who has the courage to face herself not the filtered version, not the public version, but the real one is the woman who will rise again with integrity, peace, and purpose.

So ask yourself today:Are you becoming her — or are you just performing her?

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